Dreams. Can you really make them come true?
Of course you can. But first, you have to believe it!
I’ve added a picture of Vogue magazine as one of my dreams was to become a Fashion Stylist and create beautiful fashion images for the pages of magazines such as Vogue, Marie Claire, Harpers etc. What I realised as I was creating that dream (and I did manage to become a Fashion Stylist) is that the role of a Fashion Stylist actually doesn’t suit me – simply because I get bored on set, although I LOVE the creative side. What I came to realise is that being a Fashion Stylist wasn’t actually one of my dreams, it was something “I liked the idea of” becoming. It sounded cool and you get to be creative everyday. Once I was immersed in the industry, I quickly knew that what I thought was a dream job (and don’t forget, it is for many, many people) it wasn’t for me.
The reason that I’m telling you this is because it’s taken me YEARS and YEARS of trying out different things that I thought I was supposed to be doing, when the reality of it is I wasn’t doing anything that aligned with my Essential Self. And it’s taken me a bloody, long hard time to “get” this. I am here to make it easy for you, I want to show you how to make understanding YES brilliantly clear so your life becomes simpler.
What’s next I hear you say?
We’ve gone through the tasks of setting out your Values and aligning them to your Goals. So, how do you then get the values and goals to match your dreams so that you can make them a reality?
You have to ask yourself these questions:
1) What were my dreams?
Take the time to think back to when you were a child. What’s your earliest memory of what you wanted to be when you were growing up?
2) Ask yourself this: Did I achieve any of these dreams?
You may well have achieved what you dreamed of as a child and that’s awesome! However, if you are similar to me and my Clients, most of those dreams were forgotten, put to the side, or even worse, you never even attempted to make them come alive.
3) What are your dreams now?
As we live our lives, we develop and grow. Things, people, stuff, careers, relationships all come and go and with that some of our dreams too. So what are your dreams now? Are they still a reflection of what you were dreaming of as a child? What has changed? If things have changed, ask yourself WHY?
4) Can you make your Dreams come true?
The answer to that question is an absolute resounding YES. And I know it, because I’m living and breathing mine. You just have to believe it.
I can’t stress that enough. If you don’t believe in yourself, or you have limiting self-beliefs and a self-sabotaging system at work within your consciousness or sub-conscious you will not succeed in achieving your dreams.
Take a look at your life how it is right now. What’s driving you today? Why did you get up and go to work today?
Is it to support your family, pay the bills, go on holiday? All of these things may be a part of the smaller or larger dreams that you have.
I want you to take a look at your Values. Take another look at your Goals and have a good think about the question: are they aligned and going in the direction of my Dreams?
If not, then you have some more work to do my friend! Go and add your Dreams to your wall and start manifesting them to you.
Love Susan xxx
Oh, I forgot to mention – you can use these worksheets below to help you on this little mission!
P.S these steps in my blog are hints and tips towards finding Your Essential Self, uncovering Who You Are so that you can create your life in Ultimate Style and become Beautifully Rich. They are also the foundation of The Language of Style. If you are keen to learn more, you need to start receiving the YES! Weekly News. The best I have to teach you is all in there and it’s all for FREE…whoopee, so don’t stop your mission to your success and best life, get started because the only time you have is right now!
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